Tips for making friends at any age
- Tiberiu Focica
- Mar 10, 2022
- 2 min read

Imagine you have an assignment deadline the next day, and you haven't even started the work yet because you're clueless about it. Or you're stuck at a far away road due to a flat tire with no help available. Or you're new to school and you've forgotten your lunch box and you're super hungry. Or you want to vent because you've had a bad day.
Hundreds of such problems mentioned above and only one solution: A FRIEND! Truth be told, having friends, and especially good friends, is very essential for leading a healthy life. No matter the age or place you're living in, you'll always need friends to share your good and bad moments with!
But what if you're an introvert, or just a socially awkward person who finds it difficult to make the first move toward befriending someone? Don't worry! We've all been there at some point in our lives, and we know the struggle as well as you do! And this is exactly why we've come up with this article: to give you wholesome tips on making friends at any age!
TIPS FOR MAKING FRIENDS AT ANY AGE, ACCORDING TO EXPERTS!
Here are 4 amazing tips (from experts) to help you make friends at any age:
Recognize your hobbies and practice them!
Nothing can give you a better chance to connect with yourself a others than a hobby! People with mutual interests tend to be happy and delighted in each other's company, as they find a mental affinity between each other which fosters their relationship. You can very conveniently and organically make friends by participating in group activities focused around your hobbies. Join a art community class if you're an art enthusiast, or a gym community if you're an exercise enthusiast or a reading circle if you love books! You'll automatically find yourself attracting like minded people and developing genuine friendships with them.
Get out of your comfort zone!
Well, if you really wanna have people you can count on, you need to make efforts for that! If you never come out of your comfort zone and never approach someone for a talk, chances are you'll never be able to make friends! Many people are afraid to make the first move because they fear rejection and have a low self esteem. While that is understandable, you should never let it be an obstacle between your social growth! If you ever find yourself fearing rejection, simply tell yourself "If I were not worthy enough of this person's friendship, the universe wouldn't have made him cross my path in the first place.". Trust yourself and go for it!
Have flexibility!
Many people have a hard time making/retaining friendships because they've an unrealistic perception of it and extremely high standards! Therefore, being flexible, accommodating, cheerful and forgiving will make you more likely to have friends rather than being unforgiving and unwelcome.
Give time!
You can't really tell whether a person is worthy of friendship or not the first time you talk to him. Don't be too quick to jump to conclusions! Give time to your friendship to evolve and strengthen, and you'll find yourself seeing things changing for the better!
Final Word
The 4 aforementioned tips will help you make friends organically and quickly in any age!
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