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How to be a good parent

  • Writer: Tiberiu Focica
    Tiberiu Focica
  • Oct 6, 2021
  • 3 min read

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The birth of a baby is one of the most memorable moments of a person’s life. From giving birth to taking care of the little one, parents go through a lot. Nature has inculcated in parents the sense of care and affection for their baby. They want to give all the happiness in the world to their kids. The first few weeks of the baby are tough for the new parents. The new moms usually find it hard to figure out what is right and wrong for their baby. They are usually nervous as they do not want to mess things up. Many parents prepare themselves during the pregnancy and take advice from people. No matter what age your kid is, your job as a parent is never over. In this guide, you will learn how to be a good parent.


1. Note your Baby’s Routine

Babies take a few days to develop their routine. After a routine is developed, they cry, eat, play, and sleep at a specific time. Try to note their schedule and mold your routine accordingly. Doing this will enable you to be prepared and fulfill your baby's needs at the right time.


2. Dress your Baby Right

Be careful while dressing your baby. You might want to dress them cutely but remember, the baby's comfort comes first. Keep cozy with beanies in winters. Some moms tend to over-layer their babies; overdressing leads to sweating and discomforts the baby. Get your baby breathable clothes or summers.


3. Keep their Diet Healthy

The early years of a baby are quite important for their physical and mental growth, and food plays a vital role in it. Try to give them all the essential minerals, vitamins, and nutrients in their diet. Fruits, veggies, and yogurt are good choices for toddlers. Try to keep your kid's diet natural.

4. Be Affectionate

Just loving your baby is not enough; you need to show them love in your actions. Try to develop a strong physical and emotional connection with your baby. Cuddle them, kiss them, keep them on your lap, sing them sweet lullabies, tell them stories and play with them. Showing love to your child releases hormones to get them happy and calm. Being affectionate strengthens your kid mentally and emotionally, and he/she develops a strong relationship with you.

5. Build your Kid’s Self-esteem

The children start building their self-confidence quite early, and parents play a major role in it. Applaud your kid and give them presents when they do something good. Notice their positive actions and appreciate them. Never compare your kids to others, as this makes them feel worthless. Do not pass belittling comments on them. Pay attention and listen carefully when they talk to you.

6. Be a Good Role Model

You are the first role model of your kid, so make sure to be a good one. Your kid observes and follows your actions closely. You may not necessarily tell your child to behave a certain way, but they adapt to your ways. For example, your child is more likely to become aggressive if you have anger issues. Similarly, you need to be honest, polite, kind, and respectful to teach your kid these traits. Teach your kids good manners.

7. Make Rules

You need to make certain rules and set boundaries to teach your kid discipline. Reward them if they accomplish a task and punish them for not doing it. Set a timetable for them to do homework, watch TV, play games, and sleep. These rules will help them learn self-control. Just making rules will not be enough; you need to be consistent with your rules.

8. Spend more time with your kids

Your time is the greatest gift you can give to your kids. Spend as much time as you can with your kids. Take them out and make a lot of memories with them. Play with them and cherish your time.


Final Words

To conclude, parenting can be hard sometimes, but it is worth it. Just stay calm and do your best. Always remember to take care of yourself first to hold your family together. If you keep doing your best, you will make your kid a successful member of society.

 
 
 

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